Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Purity rings might be occasionally referred to as Chastity rings or from time to time called abstinence rings. They first smacked the market throughout the States in the very early 1990's by means of a provider labeled Lifeway Christian. Quite a few other manufacturers have designed their own personal model since then.

The rings grew to become swiftly popularly accepted in abstinence categories. These rings, are many times referenced to as true love waits rings. It would probably truly stink if they never ever identified that romance! The reason most people are labeled this, is just because the Word of god pronounces that true love waits and this purportedly methods that you're meant to wait around to have intercourse right up until somebody becomes hitched. I don't know concerning you, but that may seem much like a ton of junk.

I personally believe that the Holy bible is correct. It tells about purity and the manner in which it's vital. Not including purity rings, youngsters could be having to deal with making love with every person. The vast majority of the time, most of these young clients definitely will sign the virginity promise which usually signifies these people intend to wait around just up until they will get committed to produce love-making.

Typically the issue I really currently have is if many people like the rings and almost never really believe in precisely what the ring suggests.

One time I took the subway over to my neighbor in university whom used a few purity rings and even asked him precisely why he decided to use the particular ring. The person suggested, "I think it is in fact intersting and a great deal of other consumers. my husband and my parents actually wish to see myself wear it." This individual warned my family that they went to school on Thursday and the lesson was about true love as well as exactly how you need to hesitate to get hitched for you to make love. Some people then simply experienced a session and discussed about just about all the disadvantages of sexual intimacies prior to getting engaged to be married and even had men and women sign a purity commitment and get a particular true love waits ring. My friend suggested that many of the women inside the classroom really acquired them and there were definitely some that would not merely because individuals had already experienced sexual intercourse. But nevertheless, regardless of whether you will need sexual acts before you could be hitched, anyone could possibly still carry the purity ring which generally usually means a person decline to attain sexual activity yet again prior to a person get married. This guy said that his parents presented him the company's bank card and therefore he purchased 7 rings. If only my own dad and mom were that wealthy.

These types of rings are almost always extremely common inside the Walt disney popular society scene. A newly released humor tv series made fun of this phenomena. Models specifically the actual Jo Bros use them in addition to Miley and a a small amount of other kinds of Disney famous actors. Regardless of whether their lovers are really shopping for the exact rings is still a subject. Presently there genuinely is not that much much information regarding irrespective of whether the purity rings absolutely help keep small children from making love, but no matter what, in the instance that it can keep the whole bunch from having to deal with intercourse then you need to permit all of them wear the rings?

That afternoon, My wife and i made a decision that I was in fact preparing to visit house of worship and thus make an attempt to obtain the length of his true love waits school to see if My family and i might help make the commitment to purity. The only dilemma happens to be I personally almost never head to school. Just before I journeyed to bed that Wednesday, I decided to go to my own mother and father to write to him or her regarding purity and thus asked when they waited until they got hitched in order to make love. These people mutually proclaimed they did, never the less, I am really not certain that may be real. Regardless, I concluded I would certainly choose a purity ring along with build the dedication to purity.

This tale incorporates imaginary characters but the particular background itself is appropriate.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Joe Jonas and Ashley Greene. Did she make him ditch the Purity Ring?

Recently, there has been a lot of news about Joe Jonas and his decision to stop wearing his purity ring. Before we all jump to conclusions, let's take a step back and learn just what purity rings are. Here's what wikipedia has to say about them.

Purity rings were originally created by Lifeway Christian under the name of "True Love Waits". These rings symbolized one's commitment to withstanding pre-marital sex. The rings came with a commitment card that you signed and once signed you're supposed to honor that commitment until you're married. Once you tie the knot, you're allowed to take off the purity ring and have sex. The Bible says you're not supposed to have sex with anyone until you get married so this makes sense.

So why would Joe ditch the purity ring? Maybe it has something to do with Ashley Greene being a vampire from Twilight. Vampires are closely associated with the devil. Right?

I think this situation isn't as big of a deal as everyone is making it out to be. Just because he took off his purity ring doesn't mean he's going to have lots of sex. For all we know, Joe decided that wearing a ring isn't cool anymore. I've heard from lots of guys that wearing jewelry is annoying so that could be a legitimate reason for dumping the purity ring.



It's none of our business if he decides to have sex with her. It's also none of our business to point fingers and say she's corrupting him. But let's be honest, it does sound like Ashley Greene is sucking a little more than blood...

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

What Purity Means to Me

Purity is more about wearing a ring on your finger. It's about the commitment you make to God about waiting and finding the right partner. Too many teens these days are participating in sexual acts that seem like a great/fun idea at the time, but can lead to many problems. One problem in particular is sexually transmitted diseases. Humans are sexual beings, but that doesn't mean one should just go out there and get with everyone they can. There are so many temptations out in the real world and a lot of teens fail to recognize the work of the devil.

Lately, I've seen a lot of people wearing purity rings around school. I'm not sure where they purchased them, but it makes me angry that these same kids are the ones going around and having sex with each other. For some reason it's "cool" to look and act like a christian in front of a big group, but when they get outside of the group they go back on their true feelings. They are a completely different person and forget about their decision to stay pure.

In addition to STDs, sexual acts before marriage can cause emotional scaring. I knew a girl in high school that had sex with her boyfriend after dating for only a month. Turns out, he was also getting with other girls and ended up cheating on her a lot. This caused a lot of damage to her psych and she ended up committing suicide. Teenagers fail to recognize emotional depression caused by sexual actions.

The Bible says that thou shall not have pre-marital sex. I wish more people would think about that before going out and having casual sex. There are consequences for every action. You can wear a purity ring but if it doesn't keep you from impure actions then what's the point of wearing it to begin with.

I'm really afraid that these celebrities that wear purity rings (see: Jo Bros, Miley Cyrus, Jordan Sparks) really wear them for image reinforcement. Especially the disney stars. I find it hard to believe that they actually believe in sexual purity. A recent South Park episode made fun of the jewelry that the Jonas Brothers wear by having Mickey Mouse force them to wear the purity rings to maintain their clean image. It was definitely a funny episode, but it really got me thinking. Do these kids wear the rings because they're told to? Or do they wear them because they believe in the message? We'll never know the truth but I do find it interested that one of the Jo Bros decided to stop wearing his ring recently. Does that mean he's having sex? Of course, it's non of our business, but what message is that sending little girls everywhere?

The truth is, Purity isn't about a piece of jewelry that you wear on your finger. It's about God and making a promise and commitment to yourself that you'll save yourself till marriage.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

My Purity Commitment Story

It was that time of the year again. The high school golf team had just won their last tournament of the year and it was time to celebrate. At our school golf is a way of life. Only the coolest of the cool get invited to this party, an invite guarantees a spot at school royalty. Let me start by saying I was no school princess. I had a great group of friends and we mainly kept to ourselves. We were different than most kids in our schools. We stood up for ourselves, and the things we believed in, most importantly, our faith. Our group even had a name, we called ourselves the clean clique. To be in the clean clique you had to adhere to a few important guidelines, the most important being a promise to keep ourselves pure until marriage. We held this bond by all wearing purity rings we had purchased online at an awesome site called cornerstone jewelry designs. The clean clique didn’t get invited to parties and we were sure this one probably wouldn’t be much different. It didn’t bother us though, all we needed was each other. It was the last period of the day and I was watching two things, the clock on the wall, and the back of bobby’s head. Sitting right in front of me he looked as smooth as ever.



Bobby was the captain of the golf team and pretty much ruled the school. His Nike hat bent perfectly over his brown long hair. Yeah you heard me right, he was so royal the teachers let him wear his hat in class. It was pretty normal for bobby to give me the occasional smile every now and then, and sometimes we would even chat about what was going on in class. The bell rang and popped me out of the bobby daze I was in. As we were standing up the unthinkable happened. Bobby turned to me and handed me a piece of paper. He said the three most perfect words ever and walked out smoother than a 10 foot tiger woods putt on the 18th, “don’t be late”. I was in shock as I opened up the paper it revealed to me that I had been invited to this year’s end of the year golf party! I literally ran to meet the clean clique girls outside in the yard to show them the gold I held in my hand. They were so happy for me, and the golden ticket I had in my hand. As we talked more and more about the party I started to get a little nervous. It started to hit me that my other friends weren’t invited and if I was to go to this party I would be going at it alone. I knew what these parties were like I knew there would be temptations. My girls talked me through it and even helped me pick out the perfect outfit. It was make or break time.

I pulled up to the party and was so full or nerves. This felt unreal. I said a prayer to myself and walked in strong and proud. I opened the door and was met by my favorite forever the sickest kids song blaring from the speakers. People were everywhere and everyone seemed to be having so much fun. I wished the clean clique could have been here with me but moved through the crowd to find a group I was familiar with. They were all lounging over by the goldfish tray as I walked up and said my hellos. I was greeted by tons of screaming and hugs. This was awesome. As we all stood around talking, a boy I hardly knew looked down at my hand and started laughing. I was confused and asked him what was wrong. He asked me what I was wearing on my finger. I happily explained to him the ring and what it meant to me. The group erupted in laughter, like a zoo exhibit full of chimpanzees. The room started to get dizzy and started to feel lost. The more I tried to explain the more they laughed. Even bobby and his stupid nike hat was there laughing at my expense. To these people the idea of purity and moral values was a joke. I don’t think I’ve ever ran out of a house faster than I did that night. I drove myself over to the sleep over where the rest of the clean clique was hanging out at. I explained to them what I had experienced with a face full of tears. We talked it out together and even opened up our devotionals to help get through the experience. I learned a valuable lesson that night, about real friends, faith, and the common teenager. We are a dime a dozen but we do exist. We don’t need parties or tons of friends running the wrong way through life. All we need is each other and our faith. It goes unsaid that the golf party was the last one I ever attended and that was fine with me. I had my faith and I had my friends. Who needs more than that?

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Purity Ring Search

This is the purity ring I wear

It was in the middle of the summer and my best friends birthday was fast approaching. We have shared everything since the age of six and yet I was drawing a blank at what to get the person I knew better than anyone for her birthday. Suddenly it hit me, the perfect gift for the best girl I knew, a purity ring. Just last week we sat in on a class at our church. The class taught about the trials of being a teenager in this day and age, and the meaning behind taking a stand and making a promise of purity until marriage. The class had really resonated with the two of us and together we took a pledge to stay faithful and pure until the day we marry. It was a great feeling and I knew getting her a purity ring to show her new commitment to the world would be the perfect gift. Now the question simply was, where to find one?

I hopped in my Xterra and began my search to find the perfect purity ring. My first guess in where to look was the local Christian bookstore. When I pulled up I saw they were having a sale on the new Veggie Tales DVD which excited me probably more than it should have. Veggie Tales not only carries a good message in each episode, but does it with great sense of character and comedic value. I picked up the new DVD and asked to be directed to their purity rings section. I was shocked when they tell told that they did not currently carry any purity rings in the store, but they did in fact have a vast collection of w.w.j.d. bracelets in every color imaginable. I left the store with a new DVD in hand but no purity ring. Next stop was the malls jewelry store. I entered the store and was greeted instantly by a man in a burgundy suit. He was looking sharp and I think he knew it. I asked to see his collection of purity rings and received a look I will not soon forget. He looked more lost than a man on an island hearing whispers from the sky. I tried to explain to him what I was looking for and the meaning of the ring. He actually laughed and told me that they weren’t real. I couldn’t tell if this man was joking or not, so decided to thank him for his time, complimented the suit, and walked out. 

At this point I was at a loss. Where do I find these rings. I had seen plenty of people in church group wearing them so I knew they existed. I went home and popped in my new veggie tales DVD. As I was just getting into the tomato’s opening monologue it hit me like a ton of bricks! Check the Internet! It suddenly seemed so simple. I opened up my computer and literally typed to the words purity ring into Google. Right away I got a full page of links for the elusive purity rings. The top site I found was called cornerstone jewelry designs. I was blown away by the selection and the pleasant layout and design. No creepy man suits, no distracting DVDs, just a great selection of quality jewelry. I took my time and picked the perfect ring for my friend. I couldn’t have asked for a better experience and will be telling all my friends where I found these great rings. I even got one for myself to wear. Cornerstone jewelry designs were a lifesaver for me and definitely have my recommendation. I cant wait for the party!